What’s something your uncle likes to do, maybe even when no one’s looking? Check in with those who know him best (you can message family on Facebook to mine for ideas), and find out whether he secretly loves a good game of beer pong or a high-flying trampoline.

What does your uncle do to stay fit? Is he big into cycling or does he coach your nephew’s football team as his main form of sport? Once you know how he stays active, you can zone in on that sport to find the best gifts for uncles for Christmas.

Did your uncle live through the pivotal 1960s, or he is a younger uncle who came of age in the 1980s? When you’re thinking of gifts for uncles' birthdays, look to gifts that take them back to that important decade in their lives — a trip down memory lane is a sure way to get some laughs.

With little kids in the family, he loves to entertain and get some laughs. Consider gifts for an uncle from his niece that let him be silly. Whether it’s a simply hilarious accessory (beard caps are big) or a device to show off his DJ skills, give him a gift that lets him show off his cool side for his niece.

It’s a go-go-go world, but the Christmas gift-giving season is a time to appreciate the gift of relaxation. Let your uncle enjoy a slower pace with gifts that indulge, pamper, or help him find some R&R.

Remember one of the best ways to uncover great gifts for men is to think of something he wouldn’t buy for himself. Keep in mind where he lives, what’s his lifestyle, and then what he’s focused on (home renovation or new job?). You can also ask your auntie (or other family) if you feel stumped on specifics.

Do some sleuthing to find out where your uncle heads on his off time. Is he always at the gym? Or does he plan his next beach vacation as soon as there’s a chill in the air? You can always look for gifts that upgrade how he travels or spends his time off from work.

Here how to find the best inspiration:

The Essential Guide to Finding Fabulous Gifts for Aunty

5 Tips for Finding the Right Birthday Gifts for Your Brother

4 Fun Ways to Find Christmas Gifts for Your Brother